Ugly happenings in the marriage institution are beginning to make many singles to have a rethink whether to join the once-revered institution or remain single. It is even more worrying that divorce has become the norm, with the divorce rate skyrocketing.
These days, many people view marriage as a market place where you go to, do your transaction and walk out. This is against God’s intention for the institution and many people no longer care about God’s order.
However, it is imperative to be on the same wavelength with your partner on certain issues before signing the dotted lines.
Here are some things you should be in sync or agreement with your partner before you walk down the aisle:
Healthy Communication: Whether friendship, relationship, or any form of ship, without a healthy communication, dies a natural death. Communication helps in reducing the number of fights between a couple and enables them to understand each other in every situation, no matter what they go through. Therefore, before getting married, make sure you establish healthy communication between yourself and your partner.
Money matters: You need to be clear on how you view money with each other. Will you open shared bank accounts and mix funds? Are you a saver or a spender? Share your short-term goals and your savings and expenses with them when preparing for marriage. The truth is finances are an area that can be a minefield since money can be the source of many marital arguments. Ensure you both have a clear idea of your assets before marriage.
The role of sex: In recent times, sex has been a major home breaker. ‘He cannot satisfy me, she easily gets tired,’ are some of the complaints emanating from many homes. Sex is an integral part of most marriages and therefore, you should clarify your sexual expectations and needs when getting ready for marriage.
According to research, relationship satisfaction and sexual satisfaction are intimately connected for couples in long-term relationships. By having healthy discussions and openness, you can maintain a satisfying sex life that helps your marriage overall.
Wedding details: It is recommended that when preparing for marriage, it is important to take time out and iron out the details of what kind of wedding you and your partner want.You both should reach an agreement on how big or how small you want the wedding to be and who the guest list will include or exclude.
Division of household chores: While there are cultural and societal delineation of responsibilities, the two of you need to be clear about managing the house and dividing your responsibilities when preparing for marriage.
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